11 main principles of good sex
self-evident that Love or at least love - most important, overriding principle. But what is important now? And how do enjoy sex more intense, long and useful?
1. Sensuality . Pay attention to your feelings! Most beautiful, unusual or striking action turns into a mechanic, if it does not feel it. Sensuality - the basis of sexuality, and the deeper one, so intensity of the latter. Therefore, the sensibility is also a measure of the quality of sex.
2. Awareness. Be careful what you are doing. Awareness does not mean indecision on the contrary, it is ideally combined with spontaneity. Just compile and invest a maximum of attention in everything you do. Mindfulness also means the maximum stay here and now, that is, attention to this, the body, the feelings, not thoughts.
3. surprises or originality. Standard Practice kill sex. Even if some of them awake and maintain lust, this does not mean quality sex. Eros live at the expense of constant novelty and rich imagination. Do not be afraid to seem strange, but do you the most unusual thing that comes to mind. Can not go wrong!
4. tenderness or subtlety. They - another indicator of the quality level of sexual intimacy. Tenderness and subtlety - attention to detail, luxury, brand quality. The more subtle, the higher class. It's like a cheap costume jewelry, and rough Svarovsky, such as glass and diamonds, as H & M and Versace. Failed to many supporters of BDSM that rough sex more intense. This profound error. Everywhere, including in hard practices the need for extreme delicacy and finesse. Knowingly etymology tenderness in many languages means "pain."
5. Slowness b stimulates sensuality, awareness, and tenderness. Without it, they are impossible. The more experienced person, the more slow in the beginning of his sexuality. After all, now have nowhere to hurry - all the while your. If you want to not only enjoy but also something to learn, understand, aware of the nature of Eros and man - slow - your basic tool.
6. Game - a very important aspect. The game can be understood as a competition (agon), but also as a kind of detached from the reality of practice (theater, role-playing game). Dress mask, identification with a particular role does not mean ceasing to be themselves. Sexuality is based on a change of identity, even tantric rituals actually have the game.
7. temptation or spirit, art . Quite complicated, but mandatory component of good sex. Especially men temptation usually is not easy. Use intelligence, style, makeup, facial expression, but at least read Baudrillard. But you must, must keep the interest of a partner.
8. overcoming boundaries and taboos . Do not be afraid to do ill. Everyone knows that the sweetest fruit - forbidden. Therefore, overcome by the possibility of the border, only doing it very carefully! Too harsh action can instantly destroy everything. In contrast, no girl will not give up slap on the pope and not one guy on the anal caresses, if you approach it carefully, gently and deliberately.
9. Expression emotions . Do not hesitate to make sounds - scream, moan, talk and sing. Tell me a compliment, swore, but to express themselves. Apply the other senses - such as smell and taste. Sight and touch are very important, but hearing, smell and taste contribute to the sex flavor, unique. Do not concentrate only on the genitals, but rather the whole body. Express all over himself and his love.
10. careful selection of partners. Do not jump into bed with just anyone, even if Now you're on a wave of erotic. Better to wait and go with a queen bed each day than with a cheap hooker. Do not feel sorry for the temptation of force is the man which is located to your heart and you were vozhdeleete most. Your efforts will certainly be rewarded.
11. In sex it is important to the quality, not quantity! It is worth remembering always. The intensive three-minute Quickie boring to beautiful three-hour fuss. One lovely woman is worth a thousand unloved, and the short and intense feelings are remembered for longer than a lasting and kiselnye. Do not be afraid to lose the number, try to win as!
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